Ever notice how some wishes just seem to come true effortlessly, while others are frustratingly out of reach? It’s like the little things materialize instantly, but the big dreams stay just beyond your grasp. Why is that?
The Struggle With Big Dreams
We’ve all been there. Nailing a presentation, having a perfect conversation, or hitting a small savings goal seems to come easily. But when it comes to those big dreams — like earning $200,000 a month, living in that beach house, or overcoming major health challenges — they seem to hang back, tantalizingly close yet so far away. Why?
So asked yourself this...
Are You Being Clear Enough?
One common issue you might face is not being specific enough about what you want. You might be casually manifesting and then get annoyed when things don’t change – but are you really being clear about what you’re asking for? The Universe can’t read your mind. The more specific you are, the better the Universe can deliver.
For example, if you’re looking to manifest a partner, don’t be vague. Make a list of all the qualities and traits you want this person to have. Then, use this level of clarity for all your manifestations.
Also, your energy needs to match your clarity. You might think you’re being clear, but if your vibe doesn’t match, it can create problems. If you’re feeling scared, upset, or lacking confidence about something you’re trying to manifest, it's crucial to address those feelings. Make sure the energy you’re putting out – whether through affirmations, visualizations, or other techniques – is just as clear as your intentions.
Not 100% All The Way
A common mistake you might make is thinking you have to do almost all the work to manifest your desires. Step back for a second and remember that manifesting is a team effort with the Universe. You’re not in this alone, and if you’re not letting the Universe step in to help, that might be why your dreams aren’t showing up.
This is where letting go and surrendering come in – being okay with your desire not happening right away and trusting that it’ll come at the perfect time for the best outcome. Letting go can be one of the hardest parts of manifesting because it’s not something you can nail down in one go. It’s a continuous practice where you have to keep checking in with yourself and see how you can release your attachment to the outcome a bit more.
Remember, while taking inspired action is awesome, the Universe wants to meet you halfway.
You're In Your Own Way (Sometimes)
You might not realize it, but sometimes you can be your own biggest obstacle. Speaking from personal experience, as someone who loves to control everything, learning to step aside and allow spiritual support and solutions into your life can be challenging. Trusting in the divine plan, divine timing, and believing that something better is on its way may feel unfamiliar at first, but over time, it can become incredibly liberating.
So, let me ask you: Do you trust that the Universe will bring your manifestations to life? Do you feel worthy and deserving of them? A lot of this boils down to trust in the divine and trust in yourself. When you’re repeating your affirmations and visualizing, does it feel like a chore? Do these practices make you feel good? Do you truly believe in your affirmations?
If not, try simplifying them – that’s key to effective manifesting.
Everyone’s manifesting style is unique, so find what works best for you.
Find enjoyable ways to manifest and give them a shot. What have you got to lose?
Are Your Doing The Inner Work?
One of the biggest steps that many people, including yourself, might avoid is doing the inner work. When you first discovered the Law of Attraction, you might have also put off this crucial step. Doing the inner work doesn’t mean you have to follow the same path as others; it means removing the blocks that stand between you and your manifestation.
For example, if you want to manifest a partner, but you still have wounds to heal from past relationships or hold limiting beliefs like "all men leave," then this is where the inner work is needed. Identify your triggers, examine your belief system, and pay attention to what your inner critic (ego) is saying. These are all clues pointing to the inner work that needs to be done and released for good.
Only after you’ve done the inner work can the Universe bring your desires to you. As uncomfortable as it may be to face this work head-on and explore it, it will free you from your past, increase your happiness, and help manifest your desires.
Don't Avoid The Signs
Whether you connect with spirit guides, angels, or elementals, you have an amazing dream team in spirit ready to help you every step of the way. To access their help, simply invite them in and ask for their support. You might notice repeating numbers, feathers, animals, or certain words following you around – these are all ways your team communicates with you. Meditation and listening for their guidance are also key.
Remember, you don’t have to do this alone.
Asking for guidance on what to do next is powerful, and the answers will always come. Whether you need to shift something, work on an area, or focus on something else, your team is here to help you get to where you want to be.
At Lovet Planners, we believe that...
Your journey is uniquely yours. It doesn’t have to mirror anyone else’s, and it certainly doesn’t have to be difficult! You can enjoy the ride, letting the universe guide you with its natural flow. It’s all about your perspective and the beliefs you choose to hold.
Are you ready to create the life you deserve? Let’s make it happen together.
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